Life Is Fragile

Life is fragile ~ these were the words of my

dear husband one morning

as we sat talking about life ~ life as

it now is after loosing  my dad.

"When you're young you know life is fragile,

you just don't know how fragile it really is

until you get older to appreciate it."

For some time now I have been pondering life,

but since my dad was called home to be with 

the Lord, my thoughts have run deep.

I shared from Ecclesiastes 3

in my last post
"To everything there is a season,
and each season (or time of life) will soon pass.
There really is a time limit
on everything in this life,
and time belongs to God.

~****~

I am reminded of Ephesians 5:15-17
"See that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools,
but as wise, redeeming the time,
because the days are evil.
Wherefore, be ye not unwise, but understanding
what the will of the Lord is."

God has numbered each person's days.
"So teach us to number our days,
that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom."
(Psalm 90:12)
~ You may want to read verses 7 through 12 of Psalm 90 ~
Events can take place in our lives
which can cause us to seriously reflect on our life.
God's Word teaches us to take inventory regarding
how we are spending our days.
There's no going back.
Because our lifetimes are limited,
we should view each day as a precious gift
to be lived wisely and according to the will of God.
Time on this earth is short,
and as God's people we are to invest
our days so they will count for eternity
and to the glory of God.

"Lord make me to know my end,
and what is the measure of my days,
that I may know how frail I am.
Indeed You have made my days as handbreadths,
and my age is as nothing before You;
Certainly every man at his best state is but vapor."
(Psalm 39:4&5)
I researched  "handbreadths" and it is
the measure from the thumb to the little finger.
WOW! How descriptive in showing us how short
our lives really are!

~****~

James 4:14 is so clear ~
For what is your life?
We do not know what will happen tomorrow.
We are as a vapor that appears for a little while
and then vanishes away.
We have no certainty of tomorrow.
"As for man, his days are like grass;
as a flower of the field,
so he flourishes.
For the wind passes over it,
and it is gone."
(Psalm 103:15&16)
Life is fragile ~ the Psalmist David in Psalm 39
knew how frail he was.
One day we're "flourishing" and the next we're "gone"

Are we living our lives redeeming the time
and understanding what the will of the Lord is?
Are we making every moment count for God?
Is there sweetness on our lips as we speak to others,
for they could be our last words spoken?
~
"Lord make me to know my end."
If we only knew what the next moment held for us in our lives,
would we do things differently?
I'm sure we could all say we would.
Oh Lord, help us to live as if this moment was our last,
and all to Your glory ~ Because there is no going back.

On the night before my dad's open heart surgery
all things were as usual.
Dad went and prepared himself for bed,
except, this night he wasn't feeling well.
He was weak and slow moving, quite tired
by the time his head reached his pillow.
I stood at his bedside and spoke words of comfort trying to encourage him
and reassuring him that due to his heart condition
that was likely why he was so tired.
Mom was next to use the bathroom, and then myself.
Their bathroom was off their bedroom
in their cute and cozy little winter getaway
where I stayed when visiting.
After getting ready for bed myself ~ I walked
through their bedroom, stopped and said my
good-night words of love ~ gave good-night kisses and hugs,
then turned out the lights believing my dad
was going to be a "new man"
with a new heart after his successful surgery the following day.

James tells us that we "know not what shall be on the morrow."
I'm thankful mom and dad didn't go to bed that evening
without my good-night love for them.
But had I known what the future held,
and that my dad would not wake up from the surgery,
would I have said more? Would I have taken extra time with him?
God doesn't allow us a glimpse into the future ~
But He does command us to live our lives
to His glory.
"Whether therefore ye eat, or drink,
or whatsoever ye do,
do all to the glory of God."
(1Corinthians 10:31)
Therefore ~ make every moment count for all eternity.

"But our God is in the heavens;
he hath done whatsoever he hath pleased."
We praise Your Holy Name,
Precious Heavenly Father.
Teach us to number our days
and grant us understanding of what
Your will is for our lives
so that we may bring honor and glory to Your name.
We know that life is short, therefore,
may our hearts be tender to this life You have blessed us with
and those around us.
Amen.

Joy!
~ Debbie ~ 


I'm joining the party with Stephanie at
Roses of Inspiration
   

In His Time

Ecclesiastes 3:1-15

"To every thing there is a season,

 and a time to every purpose under the heaven." (verse 1)

 "A time to be born, and a time to die." (verse 2a)

"A time to weep, and a time to laugh,

and a time to dance." (verse 3)

Listed in these 15 verses of Ecclesiastes

God has a plan for all people.

He provides cycles of life,

and timing is important.

All the experiences listed in Ecclesiastes chapter 3

are appropriate at certain times,

and the secret of peace with God

is to discover, accept, and appreciate

God's perfect timing.
He is intimately involved
in every beginning and ending.

Each season (or time of life) will soon pass.

Time cannot be stored, stopped, or slowed.
Because there is a time limit
to everything in this life,
each experience is a gift that we have been entrusted
with and should not be wasted.
The time we have is our gift from God,
so we must be mindful that,
whatever this moment, it too shall pass.
For every birth, there will be a death;
whenever someone is crying,
someone else is celebrating;
and in each season of life,
whatever purpose God intends
is the purpose we must live
with a life that glorifies our God.

"He hath made every thing beautiful in his time:
also he hath set the world in their heart,
so that no man can find out the work
that God maketh from the beginning 
to the end." (verse 11)

~~~**~~~

God knows the end as well as the beginning.
Since He knows the outcome,
He can see how each piece of our lives
fits into His plan perfectly.
 Our place is to trust completely 
in the sovereignty of our Great God.

On the day God called my dad home,
I had to remind myself of this very chapter.
To every thing there is a season,
and the season of my precious dad's
life had come to an end.
I wasn't ready to let go and say good-bye,
but God's ways are not our ways.
There really is a time limit on every thing
in this life, and time belongs to God.
The memories of my life with my dad
will remain with me, for-ever tucked away in my heart.
Thank you Jesus, for the gift of life and memories.
I will for-ever love and remember you, Dad. 
Missing you!

Let my prayer come before Thee, O Lord.
Thank you for the eternal life
my dad has in You, through Jesus Christ our Lord.
Thank you for the gift of time
that was spent with my dear dad.
Thank you for his love that was showered
on the lives he touched.
Heal our broken and saddened hearts,
as only You can do.
May we be ever mindful that every moment
of every day will soon pass.
Therefore, cause us to make every moment count for Your glory.
Amen.

God Reigns!
~ Debbie ~

I'm joining the party with Stephanie at
Roses of Inspiration 

prayer ~ Up Date

"Don't worry about tomorrow
God is already there"

~~**~~

I was at Hobby Lobby picking up those

cute little jewelry zip lock baggies so we could

carry extra medications with us for my dad.

I saw this on a plaque and felt like

it was God reassuring me that tomorrow

and the days ahead are all taken care of.

"Fret not thyself Debbie"

was the verse that entered my mind.
We've been in God's waiting room
and wondering each day
what tomorrow will bring.

Toby our cat & Lakota our rabbit
Our two precious pets
I thought you would like to meet
A bit of my family.
Looks like my dear hubby is taking very good
care of them while I'm away.
He surprised me with this photo.

~~**~~

"Wait on the Lord; be of good courage,
and he shall strengthen thine heart.
Wait I say on the Lord."
(Psalm 27:14)

~~**~~

The Lord is good, all the time and in all things!
We finally heard from the heart specialist
and dad's surgery has been scheduled for
Tuesday the 12th at 8:30 am.
Our hearts are relieved.
We have a week in waiting
and I would ask that you pray for strength
for dad as he's quite weak
and feels sick pretty much all the time.
I covet your prayers!
I want to say thank you for your
genuine love and concern for my dad
and the rest of my family.
Your love reflects Christ in you.
God bless you.

~~**~~

Isn't it wonderful to know
that God is already ahead of us
in every area and aspect of our lives?
We can have peace in our hearts
while waiting on the Lord,
and we can trust Him completely
with every detail of our lives.
Each day I am standing on the
promises of His Word,
and life is good!

~~**~~

Dear Precious Heavenly Father,
thank you for looking after
our lives and all that comes our way.
Cause us to praise You
in everything.
Amen

Blessings
~ Debbie ~

Away From my Blog

"Prayer is no fitful, short-lived thing,
it is no voice unheard and unheeded
in the silence. It is a voice which goes into
God's ear, and it lives as long as God's ear
is open to holy pleas, as long as God's heart
is alive to holy things.
God shapes the world by prayer."
~ E.M. Bounds ~

 

 I want to thank those of you, Dear friends,
for the prayers you have lifted
on behalf of my parents, especially my father
and his health issues.
On Monday morning the 4th
my father will be having open heart/by-pass surgery.
 ~
"Grant that I may not pray alone with the mouth;
help me that I may pray from the depths of my heart."
~ Martin Luther ~
~
There is peace with-in our hearts
just knowing others are on their knees
in prayer when the needs arise.
I know you will be praying,
and from the sincerity of my heart, thank you!
~
I will be spending some time with my parents
so I will not be posting.
I will be getting my messages, so please feel free
to contact me if you would like.
Should time allow, I will pop my head in
and try to say hello.

~~~***~~~

"And in that day you will ask Me nothing.
Most assuredly, I say to you, 
whatever you ask the Father in My name,
He will give you."
(John 16:23)
Amen

Joy!
~ Debbie ~

A Day at the Zoo

A couple of weeks ago my three grandsons

~ my oldest daughters three boys ~

had the week off for Spring Break.

I had the joy and privilege  in joining up

with them and spending the day at the zoo.

It was a warm sunny day as we strolled

along the paths enjoying God's Creation

in the beauty of His Creatures.

~

"For every creature of God is good."

( 1 Timothy 4:4a) 

~

My favorite of God's creatures is the penguin ~

I love Penguins!

But I didn't get to see them as they were

hiding in their little caves,

all I could see was the belly of one in hiding.

Maybe next time?

"Even every one that is called by my name;

for I have created him for my glory.

I have formed him; yea,

I have made him."

(Isaiah 43:7) 

~ All creation was made by God

and we were created for His glory ~

My beautiful daughter ~ Dawn

"Lift up your eyes on high,

and behold who hath created these things."

( Isaiah 40:26)

" All things were made through Him,

and without Him nothing was made that was made."

(John 1:3)

Look at that precious face!

Yes, God made the snakes :)

If you look closely it looks like the fish is kissing my grandson

And the underwater life

And He made my precious grandsons :)
My handsome boy's!

"So God created man in His own image;

in the image of God He created him;

male and female He created them."

(Genesis 1:27)

~~~***~~~

God's purposeful creation of the heavens and the earth

extends also to those He created in His image.

Our lives have purpose and meaning

because we are the handiwork of the creator - God who

"fearfully and wonderfully"

created us and fashioned our days before

they came to pass. (Psalm 139:14-16)

Not only are we physically created in God's image

to represent Him on the earth (Genesis 1:26-27)

we are spiritually created in Christ

when we are born again (John 3:3-8)

"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ,

he is a new creation; old things have passed away;

behold all things have become new.

(2 Corinthians 5:17)

I have a feeling some sand went home with these boys :)

"For of Him and through Him and to Him

                                      are all things, to whom be glory for-ever. Amen."

(Romans 11:36) 

This Gamma had a delightful day!
Gamma loves you boys!

~~~***~~~

You O God, are the creator
 of the heavens and the earth.
Thank you for the life You have blessed us with,
and may we delight in You,
as You surround us with Your glory.
Amen.

Joy!
~ Debbie ~

I'm joining the party with
Stephanie at "Roses of Inspiration"

Grand-Parents ~ God's gift to the next generation

My husband & three of our grandsons

"The hoary head is a crown of glory,

if it be found in the way of righteousness."

(Proverbs 16:31)

"Even when I am old and gray ~ do not forsake me, O God,

till I declare your power to the next generation,

your might to all who are to come.

(Psalm 71:18 ~ Paraphrased) 

~~~***~~~

The desire and prayer of my heart is found in (Psalm 71)

As a grand-mother I want to be found faithful

showing forth God's righteousness

and His salvation ~ all my days. (Psalm 71:15)

That my mouth would be filled with 

the praise of God to His honor ~ all my days. (Psalm 71:8)

That I will hope continually in my God

who is faithful to His Word ~ all my days. (Psalm 71:14)

Knowing that the joy of the Lord shall fill my heart

as I rejoice and sing unto Thee ~ all my days. (Psalm 71:23)  

~~~***~~~

As mothers we have Godly responsibilities

to teach and train up our children in the way of the Lord.

But those responsibilities carry on into being a grand-mother,

except those roles change a bit.

As grand-mothers God continues to use us

but we must be careful not to usurp our grandchildrens

mothers rightful place.

There are boundaries that we as grand-mothers

need to respect and we can be sure that 

  God will enable us with grace and beauty

to be all that He has called us to be.

~~~***~~~

My dear husband and I had the joyous privilege

of having our oldest daughters three sons

stay with us over part of their Christmas vacation.

We had a blast!

Our days were filled with

some great activities.

Sledding ~ snowmobiling ~ skiing/snowboarding ~ walks ~ 

stacking firewood ~ cooking together at mealtimes ~ 

but most importantly sitting around the Word of God

with character building lessons,

and the sharing of the Gospel

leading all three boys to the Lord in salvation.

~~~***~~~

God would have us to speak with

wisdom and faithful instruction in the lives

of our precious grand children.

My husband and I have made the decision

to live as believers of Jesus Christ,

and we desire to have our grand children follow that path also. 

God gives us the soil ~ our grand children

and the seed ~ the Word of God.

The responsibility is ours when they

are in our care and presence to plant

and nurture the seed in the soil

allowing it to take root and multiply.

~~~***~~~

(Psalm 71:15) ~ Instructs us to

"show forth God's righteousness, and His salvation,

all the day, for I know not the numbers thereof."

In my own words;

We are to continue on for Christ in our old age.

We are to take heed to God's Word,

lest we loose our grand children to the world.

We are to teach them as Deuteronomy 6 instructs.

"To love the Lord thy God

 with all their hearts ~ souls ~ minds.

We are to talk of them whenever we are sitting ~

walking ~ lying down ~ and rising up."

As grand-mothers ~ may we, 

like Timothy's grand-mother Lois,

be found faithful instructing our

grand children in the Scriptures. (2 Timothy 1:5)

~~~***~~~

Our Precious Heavenly Father.

We come before Your throne 

singing forth the honor of Your name,

with all praise and glory

for Your goodness to us

in all that You have called us to do.

May You find us faithful.

Amen.

Grace & Peace
~ Debbie ~

Christmas Memories ~ From One Generation to Another ~

"One generation shall praise thy works to another,

and shall declare thy mighty acts."

(Psalm 145:4)

Christmas Blessings ~ From our home to yours!

~ Our family ~
Why look at that! Our photo hog (Frosty) has made his appearance here on my blog too!

This past month I have had the joy

and pleasure of sharing

with you some of the sweet memories I have

that were made through the love of other women.

Titus 2 instructs the "older women

to teach the younger."

 I was blessed to have had women in my life

who showered their love and grace on me

in all areas of being a women.

These women, from my dear great granny

to my grandmothers, to my mother, 

as well as my mother-in-law,

 beautifully taught me how to be a women

who brings honor to her God.

~~~***~~~

The desire of my heart as a mother was 

to grace my daughters lives with all that

was poured into my own life.

As a very young child my granny

left an impression on my life,

such an impression,

that I grew up never forgetting her beautiful ways

and yet, I was only 10 when she passed away.

Granny's beauty was passed down

to her daughter ~ my mother ~ myself ~ my daughters,

and now my four precious grandsons.

My grandsons will not grow up to be

a "Proverbs 31 women"

but they can be taught how to look for one.

There are areas in the "home"

where even boys can be taught.

One of those areas is in the kitchen,

and both of my daughters are teaching

their young men to enjoy

the joys of cooking

without forgetting the clean up that goes along with it. :)

~~~***~~~

 God has richly blessed my husband and I

with two very beautiful daughters

to love on ~ to teach ~ and to train ~
into women of godly character. 
God's perfect will is that every girl
would give her heart and life completely
and unreservedly to Him
with the first gentle knocking 
at her hearts door.
As she chooses to walk close by His side
He will prepare her for the great tasks
that will lie ahead in the realm of womanhood.
My prayer has been that God would
mold and shape for Himself
vessels whose beauty would 
grow more lovely with each passing day of their lives
giving God the glory.

Now they are grown  women

with homes and family's of their own.

and so I have the joy of learning from them.
Though I am the "older" women,
I can still glean much from them, and I do.

It doesn't get any sweeter than that!

~~~***~~~

Speaking of "sweeter" 

Both of our girls are as true a Harris as one gets!

As I mentioned in my post of my mother-in-law

she had sweets tucked away in her kitchen

to die for!

There was never a shortage of delightful treats

in the Harris' home.

Both Dawn & Stephanie, have grown up to enjoy the kitchen

and have put it to good use. 

~ Our daughter Dawn ~

When my girls were young

we made candy cane cookies during the Christmas holidays.

Now my oldest daughter, Dawn, has continued

making these delightful cookies every Christmas

since she married.

They have become her "signature" cookies.

~~~***~~~

Candy Cane Cookies
These are like a short bread cookie

1 cup powdered sugar

1/2 cup margarine or butter, softened

1/2 cup shortening

1 egg

1 1/2 teaspoons almond extract

1 teaspoon vanilla

2 1/2 cups all purpose flour (sifted 3 times)

1 teaspoon salt

1/2 teaspoon red food color

1/2 cup crushed peppermint candy (candy canes)

1/2 cup granulated sugar

Mix powdered sugar, butter, shortening

egg, almond extract & vanilla.

Stir in sifted flour & salt.

*You may have noticed that when using flour

in these recipes I have mentioned to sift

the flour 3 times, it is because my granny

taught the importance of sifting.*

Divide dough into halves.

Tint 1 half with the red food color.

For each candy cane, shape 1 teaspoon dough

from each part into 4-inch rope.

Roll back & forth on a lightly floured board.

*I use my pastry cloth*

Place the strips side by side, press together tightly & twist.

Place cookie on cookie sheet

*I like to use parchment paper*

curve the top of the cookie down to form handle of candy cane.

Bake at 375 Degrees about 9 min.

Mix crushed candy & sugar & immediately sprinkle over cookies.

Remove from cookie sheet & cool. 
*Dawn says the first batch is always eaten by her alone!*

Enjoy!

~~~***~~~ 

~ Our Daughter Stephanie ~

Stephanie doesn't necessarily  have a "signature" treat
that she makes over the Christmas holidays.
She loves to make desserts
and has some delightful, 
most delicious recipes that she has shared with us
over at her beautiful blog
The Enchanting Rose 
But over the last few years she has been
taking after her grandmother Deeann
and has enjoyed the sweeter side by
making fudge for her dear hubby.
Fudge was another candy that was
enjoyed by all and made with love by mom.
This fudge with it's creamy texture
 will simply melt in your mouth!
~~~***~~~
Simple Fudge
1 1/2 cups sugar
1 5-ounce can (2/3 cup) evaporated milk
1/2 cup butter
2 cups tiny marshmallows
1 cup semisweet chocolate pieces or chopped bittersweet chocolate
*Stephanie uses semisweet chocolate chips*
1/2 cup chopped nuts
*Stephanie does not use nuts*
1/2 teaspoon vanilla
*Stephanie believes vanilla from Mexico is the best* 

1. Line an 8x8x2-inch baking pan with foil
extending the foil over the edges of the pan.
Butter the foil: set pan aside.
2. Butter the side of a 2-quart heave saucepan.
In saucepan combine sugar, evaporated milk, & butter.
Cook and stir over medium-high heat until mixture boils
(about 10 Minutes).
Reduce heat to medium; continue cooking, stirring constantly,
for 6 minutes. Remove saucepan from heat.
Add marshmallows, chocolate pieces, nut (if using) & vanilla;
stir until marshmallows and chocolate melt
and the mixture is combined.
Beat by hand for 1 minute.
Spread fudge evenly in the prepared pan.
Score into squares while warm.
Cover & chill for 2 to 3 hours or until firm.
When fudge is firm, use foil to lift out of pan.
Cut fudge into squares. Store tightly in a covered container.
Keep in the refrigerator.
Enjoy!
~~~***~~~ 

"And this is the record, that God hath given us eternal life,
and this life is in his Son."
(1 John 5:11)
***
God's greatest gift to us is Himself
in the person of Jesus Christ
who is God the Son.
That's what the Christmas gift is.
The expression of God's love
dwells in the Christ Child
And yet for many
His Gift remains unopened and unaccepted.
During the Christmas season
people love to celebrate Christ's birth.
They get all excited over the trinkets they receive.
There is joy, laughter the singing of carols 
and many expressions of love shown to others 
through the giving of gifts.
And yet ~ one gift remains unopened ~
the most important gift ~
the one that expresses an unspeakable love.
***
May we not be so caught up in the 
frivolities that the world has to offer.
But ~ may we like the shepherds and wise men
find ourselves on that quiet hillside 
in Bethlehem,
 looking down at the Christ Child
in wonder of it all ~ 
and open our hearts to receive the Gift
lying in the manger.
~~~***~~~
Thank you Father,
for what took place in Bethlehem,
the birth of Your Son.
Thank you for Christmas
when we can celebrate that Gift.
Make us, Lord, conscious of the purpose of that Gift,
and teach us to treasure Him.
Amen.

Come & worship Christ, the new born King!
~ Debbie ~


 

 

Christmas Memories ~ Two Lovely Ladies ~

Merry Christmas!

This month I have been sharing with you

some women in my life who have

inspired me in ways that have graced my 

home and my life, bringing glory to my God.

I have enjoyed sharing with you

a recipe that each women used

during the Christmas Holidays 

and the lasting memories

 that come with those tasty treats.

~~~***~~~

I am thankful for my very dear and precious

mother & mother-in-law,
two women whom I love dearly. 

~ My Dear Mother ~

My mother made our Christmases almost magical!

She has the gift of decorating

a home to where you are surrounded

with the warmth and love

in every crack and cranny of each room.

I can remember as a young child

enjoying EVERY single Christmas

with excitement , joy and delight!

Her gifts were bought and wrapped with love

then placed under the tree early

causing great anticipation of what could be inside.

For me... those gifts were gorgeous!

She could have just given me a beautifully

wrapped empty box,

and my heart would have been thrilled.

~~~***~~~

My mother's heritage is Italian,

and I have some amazing recipes

in a number of cook~books that have been 

handed down to me from her side of the family.

My mother didn't do a lot of baking

like her mother and my granny  did,

but mom loved making candy

during the Christmas Holidays,

and boy, could she make candy!

Two of her child hood favorites were

 ~ Divinity & Penuchi ~

 ~~~***~~~

Candy is not the easiest to make

and neither is it my favorite,

but divinity was the one candy I enjoyed 
that mother made over the holidays.
This particular candy is fluffy
 and a little bit chewy.
I always thought it was a beautiful candy
 with it being so white and pure.

Divinity

2 cups white sugar

1/2 cup light corn syrup

1/2 cup water

2 egg whites

1 teaspoon vanilla
1/2 cup nuts (I use pecans, mom's favorite)

Boil sugar, water and syrup until it forms a hand ball in cold water. (about 10 min.)

Beat egg whites until firm

then add syrup slowly beating until stiff and not glossy. (about 15 min.)
Add the nuts (if desired) and 

drop by small spoon fulls onto waxed paper.

Here's a tip:
When beating the syrup into the egg whites
you want to be sure and whip until the mixture
is not glossy. Sounds strange I know.
The consistency  will be like a dry mud
when it is ready to spoon out.

 ENJOY!

~~~***~~~

~ My Dear Mother-in-law ~

My Dear mother-in-law Betty,
went home to be with the Lord,
in the year of 2013.
I was the blessed one to of had 
a gracious and loving 
mother-in-law who showed
by the example of her own life
what a Proverbs 31 women was to be like.
My husband would tell you
that his mother's favorite room in their home
was the kitchen, and I would agree with him.
~~~***~~~
My mother-in-law's heritage was English,
and she lived her life in Canada.
Betty loved to bake
and there was ALWAYS sweet desserts available.
It was through Betty that 
I learned how to make pastry.
Pastry is not an easy thing to make,
but she mesmerised me when I would sit
at the kitchen table and watch the work of her hands
as we visited with one another.
She was graceful when using her rolling pin
then lifting the pastry and placing
it in the pie or tart pans.
And then...
the gracefulness of her fingers as she would
gently scallop the edges to perfection.
She was beautiful to watch
as she worked and hummed a sweet tune in her kitchen.
~~~***~~~
Many times it is our actions that teach others.
Words are not always necessary, are they?
These two women portrayed loveliness
before me as I watched them use the gifts 
God graced them with.
We are the blessed ones
when we glean much from those 
older women God places in our lives.
~~~***~~~
This year I asked my husband 
what he would like of all the sweets his mother
made over the Christmas holiday's
when he was just a boy growing up,
and this was his choice.

Saucepan Kisses
I just love the names of these gems!
  2 cups brown sugar (packed)
1/2 cup milk
1/2 cup butter
1/2 teaspoon salt
1 teaspoon vanilla
3 cups rolled oats
1/2 cup cocoa
1 cup shredded coconut
Combine brown sugar, milk, butter
and melt in a saucepan.
Bring to a boil ~ stirring constantly.
Boil gently, stirring for 5 minutes.
Remove from heat & add vanilla and stir.
Pour remaining ingredients into the saucepan & stir.
Drop by spoon fulls onto wax paper.

Here's a tip:
Be sure and have all your ingredients ready
before you even start to boil the sugar mixture
because it all happens quickly!

Enjoy!
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 God's Gift
On that dark night in Bethlehem,
"the angel brought forth
good tidings of great joy,
which shall be to all people." 
In that one small Child,
God sent the answer to man's every need.

~~~***~~~

He sent us an Advocate (1John 2:1)

He sent the Bread of Life (John 6:35)

He sent the Living Water (John 4:10)

He sent the Prince of Peace (Isaiah 9:6)

He sent the Counselor (Isaiah 9:6)

He sent the Everlasting Father (Isaiah 9:6)

He sent the Good Shepherd (John 10:11)

He sent the Light of the world (John 8:10)

He sent the Deliverer (Romans 11:26)

He sent the great High Priest (Hebrews 4:14)

He sent us Hope (1Timothy 1:1)

He sent Truth (John 14:6)

He sent us a Lamb (Revelation 13:8)

He sent a Lion (Revelation 5:5)

He sent a Savior (2Timothy 1:10)

~~~***~~~

It's no wonder the angels lifted their voices

and worshiped on that quiet hillside.

The Father had sent the world

an expression of His love.

Light had pierced the world's darkness.

The Child had arrived!

Who will reach out their hands

and receive God's Gift? 
~~~***~~~
Our Precious Heavenly Father.
Thank you for the love You
have shown to us in the midst of our brokenness.
I ask if there are any
who do not know You,
they would receive the gift of Your Son,
and allow You to dwell in their hearts,
and make You their own
this Christmas.
Amen.

~ Jesus, Name above all Names ~
Debbie

Christmas Memories ~ Grandma Maxie ~

Hello sweet friends & Merry Christmas to you!
~~~***~~~
Who can estimate the power and influence
of the home recalled in memory?
The Spirit of God can
"stir up our minds by way of remembering."
They are precious nuggets to be stored away
and guarded within our hearts.
Oh the joys of taking a trip
down memory lane
and looking back over the years
into those childhood memories.
~~~***~~~
This is my grandmother Maxie.
She was my fathers mother.

Grandma went home to be with the Lord
just this fall at the young age of 97.
My Irish grandma was full of life, laughter and spirit!
She graced our lives and homes
 with a heritage of memories.
In memory I am a child all over again
with my grandmother Maxie and other loved ones.
The best way to describe my precious grandma...
She was young at heart ~ always.
She would unselfishly stop what she was doing
should I ask her to play dolls~
climb a mountain ~ play dress up ~ go swimming ~
ride her bike with me ~ do cart wheels ~
design & sew for me a pretty dress on her sewing machine ~
Lay on the grass and look for four leaf clovers,
(one of her favorite things to do by the way)
dance with me as grandpa played
polka music on his accordion ~
or just stop everything
and bake up some cookies together.
~~~***~~~
I was the first grand-daughter on both sides of the family
and was blessed to inherit
 grandma Maxie's name as my middle name.
God has graced me with many of her beautiful qualities
for which I am thankful for.
Along with inheriting her name,
I was given her hope chest
that was her grandmothers made of ceder wood.
With love and care grandma loaded my chest with
many of her used kitchen items.
These fiesta dishes that she had and used
in the beginning years of her marriage
were placed in that chest
and saved until I would marry.
My husband and I used those dishes
for years into our marriage,
and after nearly 36 years together
those dishes are now show-cased on our hutch
in loving memory of my dear grandma Maxie.
~~~***~~~
Grandma Maxie was a good cook
though she was not always in the kitchen
as I remember my Granny to be.
Grandma Maxie was a sincere lady
who set before us her values of working hard
along side of my grandfather
in his self owned business.
As grandpa aged with health problems,
grandma was a beautiful example
of showing love with a servants heart.
 ~~~***~~~
During the Christmas season
I find great joy in spending hours in my kitchen.
Oh... the smells and aromas,
the warmth of having the oven on,
the sounds of Christmas music playing in the background,
and the love that is poured into all that is baked,
then tied with a bow
in the form of a "goodie" package
and graciously given to loved ones whom
God has placed on my heart,
brings delight to my soul.

One of my favorite cookies 
that grandma made over the Christmas holidays
was her soft sugar cookies.
These sugar cookies are not like most
very sweet sugar cookies,
they are soft and cake like
with just a little crisp to them.
And just so you know,
one batch of these delicious tasting cookies
goes a long way, so spread the love with them!
~~~***~~~
Let us grace our homes with the delightful sounds
of Christmas music, and bake a batch of cookies.
Once baked ~ pour yourself a cup of coffee (grandma's favorite)
or a drink of your choice,
and enjoy relaxing beside the Christmas tree.

Soft Sugar Cookies
4 eggs & 1 egg yolk
4 Tablespoons milk
1 1/2 cup white sugar
1 Teaspoon vanilla
Cream these 4 ingredients together until light & creamy.
4 1/2 cups sifted flour (sift at least 3 times)
3/4 Teaspoon salt
1 Teaspoon baking soda
2 Teaspoons baking powder
Cut 1 cup of shortening in the flour mixture.
I use my hand held pastry blender and mix
until I have pea size pieces of the shortening.
Add the flour mixture to the creamed mixture slowly.
Grandma always said to HAND stir
the flour mixture into the creamed part as
whipping makes for a hard cookie.
This dough can be chilled if necessary.  
 

I use my pastry cloth to roll these delicate cookies on 
and gently roll with my rolling pin.
Before baking I like to sprinkle with sugar
or colored sprinkles,
 but you may also add your favorite icing on top after cooling.
Bake at 375 degrees for 7 minutes.
Makes 68 or more cookies.
Enjoy!
~~~***~~~
"For unto us a child is born,
unto us a son is given:
and the government shall be upon his shoulder:
and his name shall be called
Wonderful Counselor,
The Mighty God,
The everlasting Father,
The Prince of Peace."

( Isaiah 9:6 )

  Look at the names that reveal the character of our Lord & Savior, Jesus Christ!

~~~***~~~

Our Precious Heavenly Father.

We love You, because You first loved us.

We praise Your Name

for the gift of Your Son, Jesus Christ,

whom we can have everlasting,

eternal life through.

Amen

O come let us adore Him,

Christ the Lord!

~ Debbie ~

Christmas Memories

The Good Old Days

Christmas in the kitchen

was mothers favorite room

where she would do her cooking

from morning, way till noon!

She was so very happy

with all the things she'd cook,

cookies, pies and puddings

all from grandma's book.

Some of it for stockings,

and some for Christmas day,

most of it for neighbors

that she would give away.

~Gertrude Rudberg~

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Memories of looking back

at days gone by...

each of us has them tucked away

 in our hearts, don't we?

I was blessed with the love of a

 grandmother and a great-grandmother.

On my fathers side of the family

I had many precious years with my grandmother Maxie,

who was 97 when she passed away

just this fall.

Grandma Maxie was full of spirit and life!
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 On my mothers side of the family

I have sweet and precious memories

of my great-grandmother Helen McKenzie.
 Granny is how I know and remember her.

She was beautiful and such a lady.

I pray that the Lord would mold me
with character traits of both of these women
as well as the beauty of my own dear mother.

Granny was my mother's mother.

My mother's mother passed away

when I was very young with breast cancer.

My mothers side of the family was Italian,

and I am thankful for the women in my life
who taught me how to be a lady.
Who were ladies themselves
and graced their homes
with love, laughter, joy and tender mercies.

 

For the next couple of weeks,

I would love to share with you some

of my days gone by

with the memories of those women in my life

who made an impact on my heart,

and share with you

some of their recipes

that were baked around the holidays.

I was blessed to have inherited

cookbooks from both sides of the family

that were delicately put together

with their loving hands.

What a treasure I now have in my possession.

******

This year I plan on making Pizzelles.

These delicate snowflake like cookies

were a favorite of mine growing up.

My Granny would spend hours

sitting on her stool in what we would now call,
her "retro" kitchen

making these delicious cookies.

These cookies take time to make,

and I know there was love poured

into the batter of these delightful Italian cookies.
The name pizzelle comes from the
Italian word pizze for round and flat.
In some parts of Italy,
the irons would be made with family crests on them
 which would be passed down to each generation.

****** 

Recipe for Pizzelles

12 eggs

2 cups of sugar

1 dash of salt

2 Tablespoons vanilla

2 Tablespoons lemon

3 1/2 cups flour (sifted 3 times )

2 cups butter (4 sticks) melted
1 teaspoon anise seed (I do not add this)

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Cream your eggs & sugar together.

 Add the butter, vanilla and lemon until creamy.

Fold in the sifted flour and pinch of salt.

You will need a pizzelle iron to cook

these delicious waffle cookies on.
Trim the lace off the edges of the cookies,
this is best done while the cookie is warm to the touch.
Keep on a cooling rack until cooled and crisp.

The time and love you pour

into these cookies will be enjoyed

by all who are blessed enough

to receive them.

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When gift giving, these cookies look beautiful

 stacked and wrapped

with clear wrap, then tied with a 

beautiful Christmas bow.

Enjoy! And share the goodness with others.

May we as ladies grace our homes with the
Christ of Christmas,  showing our love,
as God manifested His love 
in giving His great Gift to the world.
Let us willingly give of ourselves
to our family's, loved ones, neighbors and those in need.
With Christ in our hearts,
Christmas will have a softening,
sweetening influence that will tug
at our heartstrings of love
and cause us to share with others Jesus Christ,
our Christmas gift.
" Thanks be unto God for His unspeakable gift."
( 2 Corinthians 9:15 )
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Precious Heavenly Father.
Only by accepting Jesus Christ as our personal Savior,
will You be the center of our lives.
One must come to Bethlehem's manger
and walk with Christ to the cross
in confession of sin
and acceptance of Your grace
to have exceeding joy.
Woo us to Thyself,
I pray in Christ Name.
Amen. 

~ Joy in Jesus ~
Debbie